@SuperGranny - thanks i have started using that approach lately. I try for a bit then give up and try later. I used to stress about getting her right to nap on the two hours, but now I more wait for her to start getting shouty and eye rubbing (only cues I seem to get).
@VicPark - Thanks. I've try for around 2 hours between nap, more or less depending on her mood. I try to relax her with white noise, cuddle and dummy then I normally have to end up rocking her since it doesn't relax her enough. Day time naps I just leave her in the clothes she is wearing as it is getting pretty warm in qld now (short sleeve onesie). Think room temperature is around 24 during the day. Is there a website or guide with suggestions on what they should wear at different temperatures?
Thanks @sunnygirl79. We have a pretty set routine at night time and usually isn't too bad to get her to nod off, it is more the day time ones that take more work. I think we do have an active and social bub as she absolutely refuses to dose off in the pram (gets super cranky) so I have to take my carrier everywhere just in case. Lol. I will just suck it up and get over it, just find it tough when you hear alot of people say their bubs are sleeping through and are easy to put to sleep... but I know a few of them have done sleep training and I much prefer a gentler approach.