@Charlie74 gee whiz mate, im imaginging that getting the 'surrogacy' talk is much harder than the 'donor' egg talk. :-( It makes me upset that if youve done ivf before, why has no other fs checked this. Its like you could have kept spending thousands on ivf but unless you see wazza, you wouldnt have known. I wish there was a wazza within a 100km radius of every woman in australia. I totally understand that youre not doing great today. Take a time out for yourself and let whatever happens happen. Its a good thing that youve gotca plan and that wazza will be on the journey with you now.
@Lolly99 hello :-) we havent spoken before so its nice to meet you, did you have a baby mate? If so, i think thats a perfectly reasonable excuse to have a bubhub time out due to sleep deprivation and 'life' getting in the way of obsessive bubhub posting, so no need to apologise, i reckon :-)
@Charlie74 Far out.. What a curve ball. Who threw that!? I cant wait to read the next chapter..xx
@tuxcat I am well thank you! Softball is brilliant and Im still sore from Saturday. Im a bit too competitive and made my way home by stealing bases I think I just want it all over (IVF that is). And by Xmas my ttc journey will be over either way. I think Im looking forward to the freedom.
@Charlie74 Oh Luv!!! ((((HUGS)))) What a terrible frucking shock that would've been to hear for you!!!😦 I'm so sorry that was the outcome😦
I guess now at least you know why Luv & as you'd know...you can have asymptomatic infections so who knows how long ago it happened??
Main thing is you have a plan & knowing Wazza he's going to throw the kitchen sink & pharmacy at you to try to get your lining up so you hopefully won't have to go down the Surrogacy route.
I'm glad you liked him Luv despite the bad news. At least he was able to tell you in 1 appoint what the prob was as opposed to that hopeless, greedy Mole who couldn't in the however many appoints you wasted with her!!! Useless b*tch she is!!! 😡
P.S....Better start stocking up on the red wine too I reckon!!! xoxo
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