For sure he goes over everything hun including what you wrote above RE depression or feelings of despair after losses or failed IVF.
It's good to see you back here @LillyM do you want to come into the 'safe house' too. Just sing out to me or @Charlie74 for the password it's a great little thread too.
You are just as determined as me hun and I really admire that you are able to stay so strong after a BFN. I'm better at it now too but I understand what you mean when you say you get sad but you try not to let it consume you. And that is absolutely a massive achievement right there