@Caesardust I'm so sorry, can only imagine the range of emotions you're experiencing, along with crappy jet lag on top of it all. I agree that you are well entitled to take it further with yr agency, her response to your letter made my blood boil. But for now, have warm baths, eat good food and treat yourself gently. xxx
@ceasardudt sorry to hear. Came here today to look for an update from you. I shouldn't have. Makes me so angry...
Look after yourself xxx
Last edited by LillyM; 05-09-2016 at 18:27.
Thanks for your support ladies. Today went really well. The weather was perfect and the little placement ceremony was much nicer than a full funeral service. Just DH, E and me and the lovely lady from the funeral directors. We put our little boys ashes in with our items, placed the first trowel of sand before the plot was filled. We put our handprints in the last layer of sand before the plaque was placed over the top. We had a poem and a prayer read by the funeral director who then put rose petals around the site. We placed our bouquet and said our goodbyes. Simple but perfect for us. The only drawback was waiting the 10 weeks it took for the plaque to be ready. I am however in a better headspace than I was 10 weeks ago so maybe that was for the best too.
RIP little bubba.
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@Caesardust Oh my poor Luv, I'm so very truly sorry My heart is breaking for you and your DH, it really is!!!
Words can't begin to describe how unfair and totally frucked up this whole situation is Luv!!!! Am so frucking mad on your behalf about it all too!!!!
Hopefully you won't have to liase with that bible-bashing greedy cow if you do decide to take things further and can just go straight to your FC over in CT to discuss things. As for her, I'd be telling her she could shove her bible fair up her a r s e sideways as far as I was concerned!!!!
Anyhoo...know that I'm thinking of both you and your DH and sending (((Hugs))) and healing your wayxoxooxoxo
faithandhopellove that is so beautiful, i am so glad that the day was perfect for you in the way that you wanted it to be, bless your little angel bubba and your family xox
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