Thanks for your support ladies. Today went really well. The weather was perfect and the little placement ceremony was much nicer than a full funeral service. Just DH, E and me and the lovely lady from the funeral directors. We put our little boys ashes in with our items, placed the first trowel of sand before the plot was filled. We put our handprints in the last layer of sand before the plaque was placed over the top. We had a poem and a prayer read by the funeral director who then put rose petals around the site. We placed our bouquet and said our goodbyes. Simple but perfect for us. The only drawback was waiting the 10 weeks it took for the plaque to be ready. I am however in a better headspace than I was 10 weeks ago so maybe that was for the best too.
RIP little bubba.