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    @faithandhopellove thinking of you today

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    Quote Originally Posted by Charlie74 View Post
    Wow is that all?? I was expecting a huge amount like $600 or something... Thanks! I'll obviously find out for sure at some point- but at the moment just wondering! Definitely not doing another cycle in Melbourne ever again.

    Especially not with that greedy frucking Mole!!!!

    Can always ask Wazza when you see him on the 15th Luv how much QFG charges for the transfer

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    @Aquinos77 one of the things that put me off adoption is that the birth parents get so many rights. Like visits and photos ect. I really just feel that if I'd had an egg donor wanting that then it wouldn't sit well with me.
    You need to be certain you are happy with it from the outset as you will have to do councilling with your donor where all this will be bought up and discussed so you really have to be on the same page.
    Don't be afraid to say it now if you don't want contact or your not sure then tell her that. My donor and I have minimal contact she won't be in our child's life unless my husband and I want her to be and at this stage we aren't sure and we won't be sure until we have a child/children as it will depend a lot on what our child is like and if they are emotionally ready to when or if we will tell them.
    The councillor will offer you heaps of suggestions from the appropriate age to tell your child to what the ED might be to the child ie Aunty or special friend but ultimately it's up to you.
    I'm sorry about your bfn I had a bfn with my first ED transfer too which adds in another whole level too as you go through all this crap about ED contact and councilling about babies born ect and you still might not even get a BFP from it anyway.

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    Quote Originally Posted by pingc383 View Post
    Do you know how to initiate the process? I'd like to move mine to. Do I get my new clinic to organise it?
    yes I spoke to my new clinic and they gave me the genea transport place/contacts and genea transport co-ordinator arranged it all. just had to sign forms & pay the fee & they handled everything

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    Quote Originally Posted by Maxwellsmum View Post
    There's so many people on this thread now. If it makes you feel better I did remember I forgot you in the middle of the night

    Haha I think it makes me feel more special that you thought of me in the middle of the night

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    Quote Originally Posted by Maxwellsmum View Post
    @Aquinos77 one of the things that put me off adoption is that the birth parents get so many rights. Like visits and photos ect. I really just feel that if I'd had an egg donor wanting that then it wouldn't sit well with me.
    You need to be certain you are happy with it from the outset as you will have to do councilling with your donor where all this will be bought up and discussed so you really have to be on the same page.
    Don't be afraid to say it now if you don't want contact or your not sure then tell her that. My donor and I have minimal contact she won't be in our child's life unless my husband and I want her to be and at this stage we aren't sure and we won't be sure until we have a child/children as it will depend a lot on what our child is like and if they are emotionally ready to when or if we will tell them.
    The councillor will offer you heaps of suggestions from the appropriate age to tell your child to what the ED might be to the child ie Aunty or special friend but ultimately it's up to you.
    I'm sorry about your bfn I had a bfn with my first ED transfer too which adds in another whole level too as you go through all this crap about ED contact and councilling about babies born ect and you still might not even get a BFP from it anyway.
    I didn't know this, so you adopt a child and give it a permanent home but the birth parents still visit?? I thought that was just with fostering. Seems a bit crazy ifywim

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    Quote Originally Posted by pingc383 View Post
    Wow!! He has been working out, hasn't he? What a great body!!!!! As for the mum, she really looks after herself!!! Quite the high achievers!! What colour is the bub?
    More than likely black with some white but could also be red We'd like black if at all possible. DD wants to call her Roxy!

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    Yay @Tahli. Time to get this show on the road!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Molros View Post
    I didn't know this, so you adopt a child and give it a permanent home but the birth parents still visit?? I thought that was just with fostering. Seems a bit crazy ifywim


    Think it was with local adoptions. I had the info pack couple of years ago. I read it and that part just turned me off it. Basically the birth parents get as much access as they like to the adopted baby/children. It's up to them so they may only want photos or they may want more.

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    Not at all surprised. I was preparing myself for this which was a good thing. I was stupid to think de would be a saviour for me as things just never work out. Good luck to the ladies cycling for September xoImageUploadedByThe Bub Hub1473050395.446246.jpg

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