Ohh @mish239 it's the worst when your friends just have no clue and say things that should honestly keep to themselves!
Thank you I did sort of spent most the day on dr google lol...
@mish239 I'm sorry you had to hear that from a friend. You'd expect strangers to say insensitive stuff like that and while she was probably trying to be supportive in her own way - clearly didn't read the play of stating the fracking obvious has never been comforting to anyone. EVER. Hugs
Thanks @Phia. I understand that some people don't understand which is why we have pretty much told no one but our immediate family but you like to think people would know you don't chose this path unless it's the last choice.
All good, DH has me tucked up in bed with my drugs and heat pack now trying to work thru the pain x
@mish239 the best way to look at it is that people who have no knowledge sometimes say stupid things. It's upsetting but it's just down to their ignorance. It's a good idea to protect yourself from this ignorance...sounds like you're doing a good job at that. How are you feeling today?
@babydresm101 have you bought any HPTs?
Feeling a bit better today @lotsathoughts just really hurts when I move. Its ok if I stay still. Think I might have to stay home from work, just hope I can get a Dr note. Thanks everyone for the support, it's so good to know others understand
@lotsarthoughts nope holding off and DH thinks I should just wait..
technically it's 10dpo and 4dp6dt so I could do it today couldn't I? @mish239 hope your feeling better
@Babydream101 maybe wait then. Best to do it with the first morning pee. And know that when you do it once you have to do it every morning until BT. The addiction begins
If you can keep your mind busy try hold out for as long as you can...even tho it's fun to look at the HPTs together on here
When is your BT?
Just got a call, 5 of the 6 fertilised have made it to day 3! Makes the pain worth it. They said they expect 2 - 3 to make it to day 5! Fingers crossed I can have a transfer on Wedns!
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