Yeh. I don't have an issue with exa being friends. Hubby worked with one of his for a while. But you don't bring them to what is essentially your first date. Someone who was your friend for 13 years but somewhere in the middle you had a 2 month relationship that was just an utter failure, maybe. But not a 13 year relationship. That's a bloody marriage in itself. Not sure why the ex wanted to go either.