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    @Caesardust Somebody's ED was relisted tonight. No messing about there!!

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    @Maxwellsmum Good point. I always hated cycling with people as I knew Id be the dodo with debbie downer news. So @BIB close up the Nov roll call as being full. No one else can cycle in November.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Maxwellsmum View Post
    In fact if any of you ever do see any other known donor posts anywhere can you please link and tag me in here as I have been googling it all week trying to find other IP'S like me in Australia who got a BFN and I can't find any posts via Google. I can only find the BFP ones. Just one of those things that we all Google to try to help find answers, solutions and try to ease the pain a bit. Even their Facebook page has nothing. I spoke to my donor and they are coming again in November as well she says so that's 4 trips that I know off. At my donor dinner there ws about 20 IP'S I reckon. I was in contact with three others from my group two got BFP first go and one I haven't asked and I don't want to know as I can't cope with been the last peg left on the clothesline again. As I always have been before. 😔
    @Charlie74 it takes 6 days. That's with really high Eostrogen levels. Actually I was spotting after 4 days but it took 6 for full throttle. Why are you feeling this way? Can you POAS yet that's what I did when I began getting too antsy I figured if it was positive I would assume it was pregnyl and ws it a day. If it was negative I would know it was negative and not pregnyl and not a BFP. So either way I had a sort of answer. If I'm not around when you do POAS just know my thoughts are with you. xoxo
    I will do @Maxwellsmum, it must feel awful not to be able to find anyone like you. I know whenever i failed i always googled to find others like me. Thats how i found bubhub in the first place. I dont know peopke from the known donor program specifically but you're definately not the only lady to get a bfn on a donor cycle. If the same lady is still in the program, that might be a good sign, in that they would have 'culled' (that sounds awful, soz) her from the program, you'd think? Im so sorry that it hasnt worked for you yet.
    @Charlie74 i think i can understand your thinking. Needing to make a plan b just in case and wanting to know how soon you can start working on plan b if its needed. I started thinking about surrogacy the other day, you know, for when i become a multiple failed de ivf lady. Thank god negative thinking doesnt affect embryos! We'd all be doomed. xox

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    I hear you @Maxwellsmum. That's why I had to stay off the CT thread for a good while. It feels different when it's your friends from here though. Massive, massive hugs, .

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    Quote Originally Posted by Billie2 View Post
    @Maxwellsmum Good point. I always hated cycling with people as I knew Id be the dodo with debbie downer news. So @BIB close up the Nov roll call as being full. No one else can cycle in November.
    @Billie2 noooo! Ive already been googling flight prices for a second trip to athens in november! Although ive also been googling good ancient greek names for my imaginary twin girls (even though i dont want twins, i think???) Im having one of those gollum vs. smeagol days today. Sigh...

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    @gorgeousgeorge ok, a different time zone is allowed..

    I am embarrassingly watching Love Island and I just learnt that a wombat, kangaroo, Tas devil and a Koala all have 3 vaginas. Whats with the Aussies?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Tahli View Post
    I hear you @Maxwellsmum. That's why I had to stay off the CT thread for a good while. It feels different when it's your friends from here though. Massive, massive hugs, .
    I want others to have success of course but I want me to have it too and I know you and a few others have had to do multiple transfers but not on the same program as me. Every time I get chatting to people it's always me left. I had a few friends here when I decided to go to Genea they went too; me and three other ladies. Those three have one baby each now and two are pregnant again from FET cycles. Same with wazza I actually told a girl I know who had like 10 failed transfers to go to him boom BFP first stim cycle and first transfer. Now known donors so now I'm done no one cycles with me anymore. I refuse to share my clinics and I'm not giving my meds away to anyone ever again. Frucking gonsl f nightmare that keeps repeating and repeating. So I'm becoming entirely selfish and @Billie2 I would do the same keep November to yourself. Lock that month down tight.
    @Tahli you're right they don't waste time cycling their donors again with kniwn donors either mines done another here already and is doing a third in November. Is there a limit with them at all. As I'm feeling a bit put off with that as well TBH. Half of Brisbane will be related to any babies we have at the rate she's cycling.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Billie2 View Post
    @gorgeousgeorge ok, a different time zone is allowed..

    I am embarrassingly watching Love Island and I just learnt that a wombat, kangaroo, Tas devil and a Koala all have 3 vaginas. Whats with the Aussies?
    3 v-jayjay's!!! Thats a fruckload of maintenance.

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    @Maxwellsmum I think you need to come and play softball with me. Lets swing a bat... Really feel for you tonight. I know others disappear when sh1t hits the fan, and maybe we need to reach out and hold them up a but more xx

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    @Maxwellsmum xox i dont think you have to feel guilty about being "selfish". Its not a fun feeling but i think it is normal. Very very normal response to your situation. And those pangs of jealousy are normal and ok too. I always think, its not like im being jealous of material possessions. The things we want for ourselves re: ivf are really meaningful and worthwhile life experiences, i.e. we just want more love in our lives and i dont think its unreasonable as a human being to yearn and long for something like that. I always think of the dalai lama and how buddists say to accept things and stop desiring thing to become truly happy. Which is a philosophy i believe in and have strived to acheive in my pre-ivf life. I struggled with not just accepting that i wouldnt gave kids and thought i should just stop wanting it and work on acceptance of my situation. But after lots of thought, i think if i was to say to the dalai lama 'i want and desire more love in my life' that he would say 'oh thats different then. Its totally ok to desire and want to give and receive more love in your life". You've had a really really hard run and its ok to be sad and pi-ssed off and selfish and bitter and jealous and all the rest, mate. xox

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