Ok asking for advice.
I have just recovered from a serious brain injury where I have been in hospital for 8 weeks. Prior to this I had issues with my grandparents before they passed away which hit me in a very bad place and gave me a fear of how I was treated that I am trying to prevent my kids from also receiving.
Before I got married to my dh his mother and sister approached him in the house we lived in and told him i was a bad person who was in the relationship to take his money and get half his assets.
He pretty much cut her out of his life for months and we have been married for over 7 years. We also have two kids.
Since we had kids she has made a lot of effort to get back in so she can see her grandchildren.
Unfortunately since my injury I seem to have lost the control i used to have to let things go and not put my foot in a pile of **** affecting our family relationship.
So my dh has kept his family out of my recovery which i really respect and appreciate despite their attempts to four every detail.
However i am still in recovery and normally my mil would see the kids next weekend with me. I have asked my dh to prevent her from coming as I don't want extra stress and feel this weekend will be the most stressful time I have had since I returned home.
Is this an unrealistic ask? Should I just learn how to build a bridge and stop blaming her for things that happened to me before she came along.
Any advice/ help I would appreciate.
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