Really struggling recently with being a step parent. It's so hard and it seems like my fiancé does not recognize anything I do and doesn't even put himself in my position. I'm feeling very overwhelmed right now. I wish that I could talk to him about issues with his kids but I cannot. Cannot mention anything without him becoming irrational and it starting a massive fight.
Can someone please tell me that it gets easier? How does it work in other people's step families? Am I able to ask the kids to help around the house, etc?