@LillyM Are you up for EPU tomorrow too Luv????
I haven't thought that far ahead. I had 6 months long service leave at the start of the year I had hoped to transfer and go back in July but then my lining when south so I decided in June I has to have more time. Mostly because 1. I work with a lot of pregnant ladies last year there ws 5 of them at one time and 2. I just wanted to be able to go to scans and BT'S at the drop of a hat without worrying about taking time of work every other day. I have until July next year to decide if I am going back. DH doesn't want me too if I get BFP but we'll see ☺
@Arianasmum yes pregnyl a britch but it's supposed to kick start the pregnancy so here's hoping we are all on it @Blossom74 will be mad, only 1 week to go for you.
@faithhopel love you are a true inspiration to me and you are a superman. Your baby is truly adorable. What I wrote in my post about not been able to be around babies or pregnant people it's only because all of the people in my life do not get infertility. None of my friends or family have been there. A couple of them think they have. My sister in law tried for 7 months to get pregnant with her first and she thinks that entitles her to say she struggled TTC. Then there's my cousin who lost an ovary thought she'd have difficulties but got a BFP twice with both her daughters the first month of TTC them. No FS'S. No IUI. Definately no IVF. They are two examples of why I have distanced myself from them.
Then there's my sister in law comment she made when I miscarried last year " well at least it happened early on that's a good thing. Better than further along" I tell you it takes all my will power still not to smack her in the face and I saw her twice this year one time was my nephews birthday. Anyway you all get the idea we all know these people . I probably would actually like a BS with you all there as you wouldn't say or do anything stoopid
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@BIB no, I'm on my way to my 2nd scan, anticipating Epu on Wed but will know for sure this arvo.
Will update here 😊
Congrats on being pupo @Maxwellsmum, wishing you all the sanity in the world throughout your tww 😉😘
@Arianasmum - Hoping those symptoms are all good news hun we are both nearly there x
@skeeter - Good luck for tomorrows epu hun, hoping you get good numbers x
@Jazzabelle13 - It is so hard watching DD growing up without a sibling as we didn't plan it that way, we started ttc no.2 when she was 2 but I suppose life doesn't often work out the way you plan it. She often plays babies but the baby is always her sister rather then her baby and on the day of transfer last week she turned around and said she would pray to God for a baby sister she btoke my heart 😢. As others have said I am sure the gap won't make a difference for us both when ut happens but its hard.
@faithandhopellove - Thanks for sharing how it feels after the bfp hun I suppose we will never get to relax and truely enjoy the miracle. So sorry to hear things still come to your mind even now on a daily basis as you say yiur infertility scars I am sure we will all bear them. I am sure you are a supermum and deserve every cuddle from your little one x
@Charlie74 - Thanks hun I know you are right and the age gap wont matter if we are finally successful I see the close relationship my niece now has with her older half sisters where there is a huge age gap its just hard at this moment watching time slip away.
Good luck with your scan hun x
@Maxwellsmum - It sounds like a great plan that you have had time away from work for this hun. I went back to work when DD was 3 with theory of funding this ivf stuff but it just became too hard especially with the added travel when I started seeing Warren. I know people judge me and wonder what on earth I do with myself especially now DD is at school but I have honestly come to the conclusion I dont care, they have no idea. Sounds like you have had a lot to deal with with family members who think they understand but dont have a clue, I think society needs educating. How are you feeling in the early days of your tww hun?
@LillyM - Hope your scan goes well and looks good for epu on Wednesday.
@Gen72 - Oh how amazing for you as a family hun I know truely in my heart that the gap wont matter. How are you going hun are you feeling good in your pregnancy how much longer to go?
@Heyside thanks. MC in full swing. Im off work. I would need a nappy bag for all the pads I go through a day. About the age gap, my little man turns 9 this weekend. I got over age gap a long long time ago. Out of my hands. The 2yr age gap is old school in my eyes.. I'll take what I can get at this point.
Thinking of you all xx
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