Arianasmum hey lovely lady, you're like me in that evrn when you get negative hpt you still hope the blood test will be positive, so you get all disappointed all over again. I feel for you.
I think its a really good thing though that you are ok with de options. Its usually harder i reckon for the female half of the partnership to come to terms with that. So although you'r very sad, you seem to be in a good head space.
Lots of ladies say their partners or men in general are statistically orientated. Maybe you could tell dp that 2% chance could mean like 30-50 rounds of ivf if you're only getting 1-3 eggs each time. Which is insane! And no guarantee, even if that was possible and you were millionaires :-(
I have read threads about ladies going to Malaysia now, instead of thailand because the laws changed in some way but i dont know much about it. I am sure that there are donor egg options for ladies of asian decent xox