How many dpo are you @Heyside? Massive massive hugs, .
18dpo 12dp5dt so definitely out thanks hun x
Oh cr*p. I'm so sorry hun. You must be feeling gutted. What options do you have to move forward? Maybe a thought for Monday instead.
@Heyside i want to say all the things i say to myself when this happens, like maybe too early, maybe blood test will show something the hpt wouldnt, maybe in an hours time levels will have risen just enough to show up, or in 3 hours, 4 hours, 5 hours, maybe its a faulty test, maybe if i stare at it really really hard i can make a second line show up using the pure force of my mind. But... its always panned out that the hpt bfn was telling the truth :-(
Where do i go from there? To bed. To cry my little heart out for however long it takes until the grief fades enough for me to get up again.
I know it's probably too early to make plans although i know you like to have a plan and move forward.
Do wazza girls always have a consult with him after a cycle? I think, maybe talk to wazza. He seems like such a goid and decent human being. He will be able to give you good, sound advice on where to go next and what to do, im thinking.
Im just so sorry. I really wanted you to get your 2 pink lines this morning. xox
@Tahli - Thanks hun not really sure where we go from here basically Warren said last cycle that we make chromosomally crappy embies which I put down to my eggs so not sure if we are heading to the donor egg talk.
@gorgeousgeorge - Thanks hun, I think I have become resistant to all this now I have no feelings at all just numb no tears no emotion. I did think I would want a break but not sure now not sure of anything. Will maybe make an appointment with Warren and see whst he suggests, in the past the nurses have just put a plan in place to cycle again for me but last time we went to see him and was very impressed with the consultation he really took time with us. Not sure he will have any answers though.
@Heyside - so sorry to read this. It's so disappointing for you. All your embryos aren't crap, you've had two PGD normals transferred now and they haven't taken - have you had all the other lining and immune tests/investigations?
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