My baby is important to me too, obviously. We all make risk assessments every day, driving to work with the risk of crashing my car doesn't mean I love my baby less, nor does eating a piece of salami.
I know 3 people who were hospitalised for food poisoning while pregnant and everything was fine. That doesn't mean I think that sometimes it doesn't turn out fine, those reports no more sway my view than seeing a report of one baby not making it on the TV. I try to make rational risk assessments that are right for me. I don't think it's a case of 'if you eat these foods you care about yourself more than your baby' OR 'if you don't eat these foods you're unjustifiably paranoid'.