I never once said that mental illness is not real or that she should get over it. I previously said that I'm aware of how it can impact one's parenting.
If it's court ordered, that would be something that dhs would have put forward and they would do everything necessary to get the grandmother there, including paying for fuel.
There are so many holes to this story and I'm definitely not the only one that can see them, but whatever. I'll leave you guys to keep playing along.