Look, I agree the OP needs support and she has received a huge amount on the forum. But in Atomic's defense I think she is genuinely concerned for her son and his welfare. The OP has said in her threads she can't get out of bed, she is constantly suicidal and that she doesn't have the emotional strength to even prep a basic meal. People are worried for his welfare.
While I certainly don't support outright nastiness, I think we need to be careful about shutting down discussion overall (not just in this thread) about a child's safety and well being. God knows enough people turn a blind eye as it is.