@BlondeinBrisvegas - Yes I loved her post I had only commented to DH the day before I read it how sick I was seeing breastfeeding mums with it all out over facebook and I was worried for women like myself when I had DD and went through turmoil coming to terms with the fact I couldn't breastfeed. I only managed to bf DD for two months and even then I had to supplement with formula all due to my pcos. You were very lucky to have such a supportive LC, I had a Nazi who made me feel such a failure for not being able to do it. I hate seeing the pictures all over Facebook I worry for first time mums like myself who as you said are made to feel inferior.
@Billie2 - Sounds like yiu had major dramas too with the bf, big hugs hun. I was told to use a nipple shield and at one point things improved and then another nurse came in and told me to stop using them as my DD needed skin to skin and I was effecting my bond with her - so frustrating. No need to apologise for starting the discusion hun you have every right to duscuss how you feel in here. Mastitis is the worst too never felt as sick as that I had it twice in 3 weeks, that was the end for me.
@Molros - Thanks hun no frosties as such for me when we got to the clinic 3 were not suitable and we had another which was graded DD 'Desperate and dateless' as Warren calls them so we decided to discard it but apparently there was a mix up and it was frozen. We also found out that we lost 3 straight away through the icsi process in some ways it would be could to leave them to do there own thing through ivf but as we wanted to do PGD we needed icsi. I am in boosters so cant have bt until the 22nd and may poas the day before.
Its awful how ****e the midwifes can make you feel when you cant bf hun isn't it hun I was the same. If I am lucky enough to go through it again Inhope to be confident and stand my ground.
Hope you are doing ok hun xx
@Maxwellsmum - Great thst you got some support from the scientists in making your decision with the embies hun. Its good you have the decision to make though with such good embies. Can I ask why they suggested the 5 graded embies over the 6?
@gorgeousgeorge - Loved your post with yiur teacher voice you summed it up well.
@winsor - Great yiur first appointment is booked, one step closer x