My friend lost her husband at 35 her kids were 2 and 4. You can die at any age. I don't know, it's a blurred line for me. Especially if people are desperate to have children of their own. I'm not sure what your support network would be at that age. But I do know that love is love and the child will love the mother regardless of age. I would rather have a child brought into the world who is loved and cherished than who is brought into the world by people who are full of hate and anger who are young.