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    So if he said he couldn't stop and needed to do it you would leave him?

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    I think this is the issue, he will say yeah yeah that's over yet again..

    And yet again I'll find out different. It's disgusting feeling someone, who you are supposed to trust has been in your undies or clothing..


    i doubt he will change with counselling.. This has been part of him for a very long time.

    Many many years ago, when we were moving in our first home. I found some pantyhose in his belongings. At the time I did not know what it meant.

    This is probably an addiction..

    Maybe it is over...

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    The way you talk about his fetish is so degrading. To be honest if I met a guy and he was amazing in every way and a fantastic father, but the catch was he wanted to jerk off in my knickers once every few days I wouldn't care as long as he does the washing.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sonja View Post
    And as for encouraging him into your former lifestyle. Sorry he's a grown man who makes his own choices. If he wasn't comfortable he didn't have to do it did he?
    Sorry op kinda off topic but just a quick question...

    This stood out to me.. If it were the other way around and a woman said she was being forced into a lifestyle she didn't feel comfortable with by her husband everyone here would be screaming and carrying on about it.. Why is it because he's a grown man it's different?
    I've noticed on BH it really does seem to come down to gender.

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    Let's turn that around, both ways

    he meet a woman who he loved, she loved him. She was great in every other way. But she had a thing for other women she would, go have sex with them.
    But she always showers when she gets home.

    I ask this of him see what he says... Two way street...


    No drugs of course, I fully agree that it was stupid behaviour.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Hasselhoff View Post
    Sorry op kinda off topic but just a quick question...

    This stood out to me.. If it were the other way around and a woman said she was being forced into a lifestyle she didn't feel comfortable with by her husband everyone here would be screaming and carrying on about it.. Why is it because he's a grown man it's different?
    I've noticed on BH it really does seem to come down to gender.
    this is sort of why I wanted to be up front and say hey it was me who started this..

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    Im still confused. So basically you are "disgusted " by him wearing your underwear, he says he will stop but he hasn't so you feel the relationship is over? From what you have said, together you have been quite adventurous. ....but him wearing womans underwear is "disguisting ". Imagine how he would feel if he came across this thread

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    Quote Originally Posted by someoldgirl View Post
    Let's turn that around, both ways

    he meet a woman who he loved, she loved him. She was great in every other way. But she had a thing for other women she would, go have sex with them.
    But she always showers when she gets home.

    I ask this of him see what he says... Two way street...


    No drugs of course, I fully agree that it was stupid behaviour.
    But that is how it went. Despite not wanting to partake in sharing himself and his wife, he did so to please you and bc you pressured him. And that's what you guys did for some time.

    Look, if I found out my husband was into this, I'd feel blindsided and upset. But given the complex sexual past of your marriage and your level of control over that, I think it's only a one way street, yours.

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    if you are so kinky and into woman also, why not join him in his fantasy world of stockings ? If you can't beat them, join them ? That way it may get your sexlife back on track and he won't have the need to lie to you, as you were there ? Turn a negative situation into a positive one.

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    Wow, I think you need some serious relationship counselling and some for yourself.


 

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