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    Quote Originally Posted by VicPark View Post
    If that is the case then let's take the focus off you for a minute.

    1) How is your DH as a parent? Does his desire to wear tights (and lying about it) indicate a deeper issue, a personality or other flaw that may also affect his ability to parent his child?

    2) How are you as a parent? Is your pining for illegal drugs and desire to bed multiple people at any one time indicative of deeper health and other issue that may also impact your ability to parent your child?

    How is your child going? Growing? Settling into care? Attachments to caregivers ok? Meeting developmental milestones?
    Hubby is a wonderful father to our child.. They have a wonderful bond together..

    Me as a parent, Im pretty good. Not pinning for drugs.. That is the past.. I dont use drugs anymore.. I was never an addict.. I should have been clearer, I used drugs in the past before having this baby..
    I dont even drink..

    As for my child.. they are fine.. growth right in track.. immunisations all done..
    She has private health insurance, a private paediatrician. He has advised there seems to be no issues with any development.
    She does not yet go to child care... She will for a few days a week, next year..
    Im a stay home parent for 2 years..
    But they seem to be enjoying the activities we do together.. Such as play group, gymbaroo swimming ect..
    They are a very wanted and loved child by all the family.

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    Quote Originally Posted by GlitterFarts View Post
    To me, your dh sounds like he's somewhat confused.. Is it just pantyhose he wears or other womens clothes?
    As far as Im aware.. mainly pantyhose.. But I do know he has worn whole outfits..

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    Quote Originally Posted by someoldgirl View Post
    As far as Im aware.. mainly pantyhose.. But I do know he has worn whole outfits..
    Are you concerned that he will ultimately want to transition and that's what he's not being honest about?

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    This is twisted I'm sorry.... But wtf...

    Just because your child has immunisations Phi and a bond with her father in your eyes doesn't mean anything I feel sick reading this 😷

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    Quote Originally Posted by VicPark View Post
    Hang on... If you can drag your husband into doing drugs and letting you shag whoever, why can't he wear pantyhose? Why is his fetish 'creepy' while your tendencies (which some would consider perverted) are not?

    And before you say the difference is you are open while he lies, have a think about why that may be. Perhaps your judgement is why your DH won't open up to you. Or perhaps he just can't be arsed having a conversation with you anymore as the activities you have undertaken as a couple have eroded any real bond and love that you may have once shared.

    Those in glass houses shouldn't throw stones.

    Good luck.
    I literally was just about to write the same as you.
    I think it's terrible how he is being treated over pantyhose considering what he has gone along with to keep her happy.
    If he can do that for his wife then she can let him wear pantyhose all day if it keeps him happy.
    Works both ways!

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    Quote Originally Posted by someoldgirl View Post
    Me as a parent, Im pretty good. Not pinning for drugs.. That is the past.. I dont use drugs anymore.. I was never an addict.. I should have been clearer, I used drugs in the past before having this baby..
    I dont even drink..
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    "Our life has clearly slowed down, and no more drugs expect for a recent concert.
    No more swinging, either. "

    Your whole OP smacks of "I miss my old life where I was allowed to do whatever I want and treat my DH like crap in the process. I'm ****ed off
    Now I can't do that .... Especially considering that my DH is doing something he wants instead of what I tell him to do."

    If this is a genuine post please look in the mirror, take responsibility and get help for your issues before your family implodes further.

    If this is not a genuine post then please get a life and stop wasting people's time.

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    Default WWYD Lying Husband possible trigger

    I just struggle to understand why you went into such graphic detail about your sex life prior to discovering this fetish unless you think it's relevant. If you think it's relevant than that's because you can surely realise liking someone's pantyhose and having a sneaky **** is no more kinky as the previous escapades in your relationship. If you're jealous because your sex life has flatlined maybe ask him how you can get involved? It sounds like both of you have always failed to meet or consider the other's sexual needs. It's a two way street.

    OR you went into such details because you are not genuine and getting a little thrill talking about such scenarios yourself?

    But thank you for livening up the hub anyway.
    Last edited by Little Miss Sunshine; 03-08-2016 at 07:05.

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    I think the op went into detail about her sex life to prove that she is no stranger to adventurous sex but all its done is baffle me as to why she wouldn't be more understanding of her husband. Op you say it's the lies that bother you and rightly so you DH should be honest but if it were just the lies then why would you call your husband a creepy guy? Surely you would know that would lead to him not feeling like he could be open and honest with you about it all. I think you should both seek counselling to a) learn to communicate better and b) so he can figure out if there is a reason for his female clothes fetish such as he feels more female then male.

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    Come on ladies some of these responses are harsh. No wonder the hubber has gone anonomous. Not saying what they did was right, - it's certainly not my cup of tea & it's never something that i'd agree with etc but really what are comments like ''wtf'' going to achieve?

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