@TheGooch yes I'm totally irrational on that one. It's hard to ask him to pipe it down on the text outside of work... They're a close knit team, always have been. She's the latest addition but before her they would usually go out once a week all together.
I work for the business too but out of office. The other thing that hurt is that this wkd he told me he wouldn't increase my hours, it wouldn't be good for the business. When only a couple months back he was asking me to do 2 days a week (only doing 4hrs now).
However I do agree that it wouldn't be good for the business. I'm considering quitting now