milk before solids. always. 4m is too young to be dropping milk feeds, esp in favour of solids.
I'm starting to get pretty worked up over this as I'm very passionate about the wellbeing of babies.
girls in my mothers group are dropping milk feeds in favour of solids too and it's wrong. our bubs are 5-6m old. milk should still be their #1 source of nutrition.
please do not drop milk feeds and offer solids after a milk feed, not before.
also no lemon for babies. it's too acidic.