So I have moved out with ds5 and dd4 because my ex was escalating emotional and verbal abuse and beginning to punch walls etc
I'm also certain that he was (is?) doing meth but not in front of the kids or I.
I have a no contact order in place and we have both engaged legal reps.
He wants to put in place a parenting plan and I don't feel secure at all. If he takes the children there is no guarantee he will return them right?
I left with nothing.
He is also not making any arrangements to collect my personal effects and wants to veto what I'm removing from the property.
My lawyer is a bit meh about my stuff but I have items which my deceased father gave me that I want returned. I still have access to the shared property and I'm considering just going and taking my stuff and dealing with it later.
Thoughts from anyone who's gone through this would be great because I'm feeling like I'm losing everything to an angry violent man.