@Charlie74 ouch! Regarding your work mate. **** moi that would be soooooo hard. Id never even imagined that. One of the embryologists at one of my transfers told me she was doing ivf. This was while i was sooking and she was saying, 'im sorry i understand'. I was thinking "As if u do! Shut up!", luckily i didnt say it. Gave me a good reality check actually. Lol, like a slap in the face. Totes forgot other peeps had problems too at that moment.