DD is now 3 months old. We can't decide on who to leave her with if the unthinkable happened.
What things did you consider when choosing who to leave your children with?
Did you ask the potential guardians if they wanted to do it first?
Did you choose a couple? Or two people who are not together (ie one sibling from each parents side etc)?
Of course this is not an easy subject so I hope it doesn't upset anyone!