So, MIL's birthday is on Friday, we saw her a few days ago and she said nothing about doing anything on her birthday. So we made plans for this Friday to have some friends over... now - halfway thru Wednesday she calls up DH and wants us to all go out for pizza... DH said no we can't as we have visitors and she should have said something before now.. so of course she's shirty about it and expects us to cancel the friends for her last minute do... wwyd? DH's opinion is stuff it, as she had a whole day to tell us when we spent the day with them a few days ago. thoughts? it is NOT a milestone birthday, just a regular b'day.