Housework has been a big issue for us as he was never made to do it when he was growing up. His dad always did the 'mens jobs' outside and his mum did everything inside. He has gotten a bit better over time but I still do 90%. If I give him precise instructions to do something then he will eventully get around to it in a few days but lve learnt not to get too worked up about it.
Last night he asked where one of his shirts was, so i told him that it was in the dryer but it should be finished now. So he rummaged through the clothes in the dryer and found his shirt and then left the rest of the load sitting in the machine for me to take out and fold. Frustrating!