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    @BlondeinBrisvegas (also known as @hotstuffinbrisvegas) I'm glad to hear the ex has agreed to all of your safeguarding measures. Well done hun. I can only guess you've kept a good record of Saturday's events. I can almost hear the relief in your voice. You're doing a brilliant job of this recently-separated-single-mum malarkey.

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    @Billie2 After your haemorrhage there wasn't anything that suggested you were more susceptible to bleeding was there? Hang in there hun. We'll all help you get through to Friday.

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    @Billie2 - I can understand your anxiety. One day at a time and Friday will be here soon.

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    @Billie2 hey lovely, dont feel guilty about how you feel or 'try not to feel stuff', i reckon. If you're worried, its ok to feel worried. Otherwise you have more probs to worry about i.e. 1) being worried + 2) feeling guilty and worried about being worried + 3) trying to force yourself to feel a different emotion. This sounds bossy and i dont mean it to be. A wise woman bf of mine told me this once when i had my first embryo transfer and i was telling her that i felt excited but felt like i shouldnt be excited in case i got my hopes up and it ended up not working. I was worried if i was excited that i was setting myself up for a bigger disappointment. She said, "dont try not to feel stuff. If you're excited, be excited and then if you're disappointed, then feel disappointed". Im just telling you, not because i want to tell you what to do, but just because i have found this advice genuinely helpful throughout ivf and life in general. Just run with however you feel mate. Its perfectly normal to be worried about stuff. That is what happens to humans when they are in situations they have no control over. IMO please dont think that we are all like, 'oh you got a bfp, just be happy' coz i dont feel like that at all. Worrying wont affect bubba or the outcome, so there is no problem with worrying, self preservation, being reserved, and feeling like you should be feeling some other emotion is just being too hard on yourself. I think, just feel however you feel. Obviously feeling worried sux but you dont have to try and snap out of it or look on the brightside. You dont have to do anything. Its totally ok for you to just feel however you feel mate xox
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    Totally totally understand where your head is at @Billie2 that would be me exactly. It's very hard to remain positive when you've been put through the ringer previously, just do whatever you can to get you through. I guess for me it's keeping busy and trying to occupy myself so I'm not sitting at home googling and stressing. There really is nothing you can do to change what will happen, but keep up the extra progesterone and hope for the best, we are all here sending out prayers to whomever for everything to be perfect for you xxx

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    @Tahli nothing was ever found from my haemorrhage. Everything always comes up clear. If anyone has info about luteal support or tests let me know. I want to have more testing when this is sorted.
    @gorgeousgeorge thank you for saying that. Its not bossy. To be honest, the strongest feeling I have is stupid. I feel stupid that I was sucked in to believing my amazing cycle would be perfect till the end. If its too good to be true, it usually is. I feel stupid for posting my poas. I feel stupid for thinking about names for a baby. I feel stupid that I was planning on turning up to my niece's bday with a belly for my news. I feel stupid I let myself believe in success. Been a top year, losing litres of blood in February and feared Id lose my life, then comes easter and I got concussion from smacking my head on a palm stump in the garden & completely missed easter with migraines & slept for 4 days. I just wanted a little incy wincy break. And I know that there are so many worse off. Thats why I dont cry. I am blessed. Im just having a shiiit run of a year.

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    @Billie2 I know where you're coming from honey, I really do. I've felt exactly the same and it's times of stress that it feels extreme. Sending you a massive hug, I know nothing helps when you feel like this but know we are all behind you. Try to not get too far ahead of things, it can make everything feel impossible, just take one day at a time. You've got great hcg numbers so far, so it may very well all turn out to be great.

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    @Billie2 i feel for you hun ive been there through lots of disapp and even in my success preg i just couldnt get excited until she was here. I know its hard but try and take one day at a time you have had a good starting point and every day is a step in the right direction xxx

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tahli View Post
    @BlondeinBrisvegas (also known as @hotstuffinbrisvegas) I'm glad to hear the ex has agreed to all of your safeguarding measures. Well done hun. I can only guess you've kept a good record of Saturday's events. I can almost hear the relief in your voice. You're doing a brilliant job of this recently-separated-single-mum malarkey.

    Thanks Luv

    I knew he would agree as he knows he totally frucked up bigtime.

    What I wasn't sure about was how receptive he'd be to wanting to sort himself and the situation out with me...if he'd realised how much he'd lost the plot emotionally and mentally etc but he knows full well. He's also prone to being an immature and stubborn tool as well but today he was a broken man who was angry at himself


    P.S.....I think you meant to say @OldBaginBrisvegas!!!

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    @Charlie74 you made me tear up on the train. I am overwhelmed by the support on here. If something happens to you, then pretty sure its happened to another on here and you can learn from how they dealt with it. No bleeding overnight, but can feel my pad is wet as I sit at my desk. I told my boss what has happened, and he is very supportive. Him & his wife lost a baby at 20weeks, so anything relating to pregnancy and IVF he is very supportive of. My cramps were excruciating last night and Im living on panadol. Today I have passed a big black chunk of crinone and now bleeding with clots, so this one is a bust. I am prepared to hear the negative result on Friday when they call with results. No point carrying on about it now, the result is written in the toilet. Its not the end of the world, just another hurdle I didn't make so have to start again.

    I want to hug you all for being so positive but realistic. I wont give up just yet, I still have 2 frozen babies.. xx
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