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    Quote Originally Posted by Billie2 View Post
    @BIB I respect your privacy & consider this a safe house so you can have a break from what is going on. I think I can read between lines and just know Im thinking of you and DD and you are doing the right thing. Tough love is needed. Bless you and your little miss xx
    Quote Originally Posted by Tahli View Post
    @BlondeinBrisvegas I'm guessing most of us can read between the lines. I hear you when you say you don't want to discuss it any further. I completely respect that. I just wanted to say that as another single mum with a tricky former partner, I'm here for you any time you need me. I'm hoping you've shared Saturday's experience with someone close to you and that safeguards are being put in place so you and DD feel protected. You're always the strong one but if you want to let your guard down a little bit we're all here for you. Massively supportive hugs, .

    Thanks Girls...

    To say I'm shocked is the understatement of the frucking year as he's never displayed this kind of intimidation/threatening behaviour toward me before in the whole 9 years we were together, so for him to behave in that way was something I just never expected from him nor thought him capable of. I will say that the incident didn't involve him hitting me though the incident falls into the DV category.

    I'm really upset about it all still and am feeling sad as on one hand I understand that he's obviously unwell to have lost control the way he did, but on the other hand, being unwell doesn't give him a free pass to do what he did. He has to take the consequences of his actions and I have to put the safeguards/boundaries in place until he recovers and is back to the person I know him to be and one who can be trusted.

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    @Tahli there's always the super zen option of elevit + progesterone afterwards. were you on any meds when you had your DS?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tahli View Post
    Sorry @Billie2 I didn't mean to repeat your post. We must have been thinking the same thing at the same time.
    A while back we had a discussion about DV where a good few of us shared our experiences. It was a safe, nurturing and understanding place. It reminds me of what a phenomenal group of women we have here and our support for each other extends beyond ttc. This is our 'village'. I'll stop there BiB and respect your wishes. xx

    I just can't talk/type about it yet because I still can't believe it frucking happened Luv, I really can't

    I'm still in shock and am still trying to process it all......

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    @Charlie74 Ta for your kind offer. I've filled the form out but I don't have enough time to be relying on the post and I don't have a fax machine. I think it takes a good while for Pred belly to dissipate unfortunately. My bloat is at least deflating but then it just leaves the truly stubborn fat to get rid of. My chocolate addiction doesn't help!
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    @midnite01 When is POAS day?
    @Caesardust I loved your update. Surely it's time one or more of our Melbourne catch up girls got their BFP. @midnite01 is the closest. C'mon girl!! Then I think there will be a flurry of PUPOness. @Calypso where are you at hun? xx
    @Lucky8 Wazza is my 'leave no stone unturned'. I should have gone to him earlier but I wanted to use up my ED embryos first. I knew that if I was to do a final hurrah with my own eggs he was the man for the job. He seems to have good success with DE cycles too (sorry @Maxwellsmum) whereas LB loses interest at that point!
    @winsor Yep, I'm on my version of Elevit and be injecting Gestone (progesterone in my bum). When I conceived DS I was on diddley squat, not even folic acid, so now that's partially what I'm returning to.
    Last edited by Tahli; 24-07-2016 at 22:52.

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    hugs @BlondeinBrisvegas I hope everything works out. good luck with the counseling session. take care

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    @Tahli Yes we were! I was previously a girl in blue, so I get it. It is safe here, everyone is so open & supportive. xx

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    Is there a morning POAS @Billie2? How did your chat with DH go?

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    @Tahli Ive stopped poas-ing! I thought it would send me nuts. I will do one on Tuesday and thursday and then friday BT. DH initially told me to calm down, and he is the one that keeps bringing it up. He is very excited in a man way! But we are taking each day as it comes. Of course Im nervous.

    If anyone is on Insta please have a look at @celestebarber she is the funniest aussie mum Ive ever seen. She copies celebrity shots. She makes my day. ImageUploadedByThe Bub Hub1469396410.993919.jpg

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    @Green lady, good luck hon. Today is a very special day for you and I'll be stalking for updates this afternoon


    @BIB, big hugs to you lovely. I know you don't want any discussion but please know that you are doing the right thing in protecting yourself and your daughter. Threats and intimidation can be just as harmful as physical violence, and are certainly not appropriate for your DD to be witnessing. I think supervised visits are essential. I'm very sorry you had to be exposed to that kind of behavior also

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    Good luck today @Green lady!

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