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    @Tahli

    LB ended up writing my scripts for me kicking & screaming as she felt o/s should do it all ... She got a bit snappy as she is busy so I said everyone's busy these days aren't they .. & I need them before I fly out ..Haha

    She wrote the scripts up in the end but my obstetrician dr Ian barabash said he was able to write any scripts If I got stuck .

    May I ask are you seeing Wazza as you want another opinion ? or to guide you in next steps ?

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    Hi Girls.......

    Thanks for thinking of me and for your concern. I am ok and yes, lets just say there was a bit of an incident with the Ex here on Sat that happened at lunchtime when DD was in bed at nap time that stemmed from a verbal disagreement we were having which resulted in him completely losing his sh!t, crossing the line and behaving in a manner that is completely out of character for him.

    He is suffering from depression that he is taking medication for as well as seeing a psychologist as some of you know just as most of you know he hasn't been dealing well with our separation 7 months ago. Nevertheless, it's no justification or excuse for his behaviour on Sat which I will describe as intimidating/threatening. A reason, yes, an excuse, no and not something that I can or will excuse, ignore or pretend never happened either. The consequences to his actions are being dealt with this week.

    Once that matter has been dealt with I'll be approaching the Ex about having joint counselling with his Psychologist in regards to this incident that happened on Sat and how we are going to move forward from here on in as I need reassurance from her (his Psych) that he can be trusted to manage his emotions appropriately when he's around myself and DD and that he's emotionally/mentally stable enough in regards to his depression to be able to co-parent DD effectively, take her for outings to the park etc. Until I get that reassurance, all visits with DD will be supervised.

    That's all I'm going to say about it, but thank-you all again for your concern. I really do appreciate it and I most definitely am okxoxox
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    @BIB I respect your privacy & consider this a safe house so you can have a break from what is going on. I think I can read between lines and just know Im thinking of you and DD and you are doing the right thing. Tough love is needed. Bless you and your little miss xx

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    @BlondeinBrisvegas I'm guessing most of us can read between the lines. I hear you when you say you don't want to discuss it any further. I completely respect that. I just wanted to say that as another single mum with a tricky former partner, I'm here for you any time you need me. I'm hoping you've shared Saturday's experience with someone close to you and that safeguards are being put in place so you and DD feel protected. You're always the strong one but if you want to let your guard down a little bit we're all here for you. Massively supportive hugs, .

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    Sorry @Billie2 I didn't mean to repeat your post. We must have been thinking the same thing at the same time.
    A while back we had a discussion about DV where a good few of us shared our experiences. It was a safe, nurturing and understanding place. It reminds me of what a phenomenal group of women we have here and our support for each other extends beyond ttc. This is our 'village'. I'll stop there BiB and respect your wishes. xx

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    Quote Originally Posted by Green lady View Post
    @tuxcat - scan tomorrow at 2.45. I'm ready for whatever comes. I just want either good or bad but no limbo in between torture that will go in for weeks. Physically I feel awful with 24 hour nausea.
    nausea sounds promising & awful at same time. maybe some gingerale or gingerbread bickies to help? good luck for your scan tomorrow

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    Quote Originally Posted by Billie2 View Post
    @BIB I respect your privacy & consider this a safe house so you can have a break from what is going on. I think I can read between lines and just know Im thinking of you and DD and you are doing the right thing. Tough love is needed. Bless you and your little miss xx
    Quote Originally Posted by Tahli View Post
    @BlondeinBrisvegas I'm guessing most of us can read between the lines. I hear you when you say you don't want to discuss it any further. I completely respect that. I just wanted to say that as another single mum with a tricky former partner, I'm here for you any time you need me. I'm hoping you've shared Saturday's experience with someone close to you and that safeguards are being put in place so you and DD feel protected. You're always the strong one but if you want to let your guard down a little bit we're all here for you. Massively supportive hugs, .

    Thanks Girls...

    To say I'm shocked is the understatement of the frucking year as he's never displayed this kind of intimidation/threatening behaviour toward me before in the whole 9 years we were together, so for him to behave in that way was something I just never expected from him nor thought him capable of. I will say that the incident didn't involve him hitting me though the incident falls into the DV category.

    I'm really upset about it all still and am feeling sad as on one hand I understand that he's obviously unwell to have lost control the way he did, but on the other hand, being unwell doesn't give him a free pass to do what he did. He has to take the consequences of his actions and I have to put the safeguards/boundaries in place until he recovers and is back to the person I know him to be and one who can be trusted.

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    @Tahli there's always the super zen option of elevit + progesterone afterwards. were you on any meds when you had your DS?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tahli View Post
    Sorry @Billie2 I didn't mean to repeat your post. We must have been thinking the same thing at the same time.
    A while back we had a discussion about DV where a good few of us shared our experiences. It was a safe, nurturing and understanding place. It reminds me of what a phenomenal group of women we have here and our support for each other extends beyond ttc. This is our 'village'. I'll stop there BiB and respect your wishes. xx

    I just can't talk/type about it yet because I still can't believe it frucking happened Luv, I really can't

    I'm still in shock and am still trying to process it all......

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    @Charlie74 Ta for your kind offer. I've filled the form out but I don't have enough time to be relying on the post and I don't have a fax machine. I think it takes a good while for Pred belly to dissipate unfortunately. My bloat is at least deflating but then it just leaves the truly stubborn fat to get rid of. My chocolate addiction doesn't help!
    Thanks @Heyside!
    I'll be thinking of you tomorrow @Green lady.
    @midnite01 When is POAS day?
    @Caesardust I loved your update. Surely it's time one or more of our Melbourne catch up girls got their BFP. @midnite01 is the closest. C'mon girl!! Then I think there will be a flurry of PUPOness. @Calypso where are you at hun? xx
    @Lucky8 Wazza is my 'leave no stone unturned'. I should have gone to him earlier but I wanted to use up my ED embryos first. I knew that if I was to do a final hurrah with my own eggs he was the man for the job. He seems to have good success with DE cycles too (sorry @Maxwellsmum) whereas LB loses interest at that point!
    @winsor Yep, I'm on my version of Elevit and be injecting Gestone (progesterone in my bum). When I conceived DS I was on diddley squat, not even folic acid, so now that's partially what I'm returning to.
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