@ECM1981 Oh Luv, I'm so very sorry, I really am
That's so frucking unfair it really is!!! I've got nothing to offer as this is right out of my field of experience. Just know that I'm thinking of you and sending prayers your way that whichever path you next choose will give you that BFFP finally FFS's!!! Enough is enough already!!!
@ECM1981 I'm so sorry to hear your news, it's devastating and I feel so sad and angry for you!! Can your FS shed any opinion on why this has happened? For such a low embryo number etc. take care of yourself and we are all thinking of you.xx
@Green lady you are in a hard place, I too have done the weeks of scans and uncertainty so I know why you don't want to go down that road. My only thought is that you know your dates so would that help in regards to getting an earlier scan? With my BO there was only ever a gestational sac so if you were to get an earlier scan and there was more than that would it give you some peace of mind?and I guess by 6 weeks there should be a heartbeat or nearly one so can you just go in at 6 weeks? I'm with @MissDa you've got your wonderful amazing BFFP and I'm not going to let it be any other way! It's a never bloody ending sh!tstorm isn't it. Xx
@Rhino so sorry you've just copped a bfn and a 3 day migraine, life is just crap some times and I hope you are now feeling better, take care xx
@BlondeinBrisvegas I love the celebrity thing, I had such a chuckle at that! It's really cute. It's all those medals you've got pinned to your avatar hey..your famous on BH so be proud! It sounds like you've got a lot of your plate with DD, my niece has lots of learning difficulties and I know how much stress and money it takes to get her all the help she needs. It must be exhausting! You can talk about your stuff too, God knows you support everyone in here when they need it, it's the least we can do.
@Tahli I'm jealous of your orange lunch, I love cheezels!
@Billie2 5 eggs is absolutely brilliant! So epu is tomorrow? Good luck!! I'm sending good egg vibes your way!!
To all of those in need of a hug...
@ECM1981 What did the embryologist or Dr M at CFC say about the result? I'm not wanting to rub salt into the wound, but your EDs previous cycle was aok wasn't it? Did you use the embryoscope? I'd very curious to know/see what actually happened to your $30k embryos. Can you request a report? At least you know it wasn't anything to do with your body. Would it be worth chatting through your options with a counsellor? If I was you I'd be needing to do something with my anger. Are donated embryos an option for one last hurrah before moving on to surrogacy?
@ECM1981 I'm really sorry, this is all so hard and with DE we hope that's the answer and it to work.
@Green lady sorry to hear about the spotting, it's always a worry but as everyone says very common so hopefully you'll be just fine. Roll on the scan. The stress and worry really seems to be never ending on this IVF roller coaster.
Thanks BIB, I fell off the roll call but thanks for checking up, you're very kind. My BT is Friday and I've decided to wait it out until Thursday when I'll do a hpt. Been really busy at work and tried staying off bubhub so I don't constantly think about this last ditch attempt with OE but failing miserably.
Hey all i start orgultran tonight and follie scan on friday am. Feeling a bit fuller in the ovaries today. Im in the cant be arsed mood im doing it basically to appease hubbie before we move to donor eggs. Im friggen over taking heaps of vitamins every day.
@tuxcat I've only rediscovered Cheezles this week. So 1980s! Do they have MSG in them because it's entirely possible to polish off a whole box for lunch! Now we can't have any of the girls coming on tomorrow lunch time claiming a Green lunch of kale salad and a celery smoothie. It needs to be PMT worthy...like a Brown lunch consisting of a family size block of chocolate with a glass or two of brown creamy soda, 80s style!!
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