@Billie2 , that's amazing your boss is supportive . Stay strong & positive .Look after yourself , big hugs from me xxxxxxx
Ahh geez @Billie2 it certainly sounds like you're miscarrying doesn't it. Oh flipping heck. Have you called your clinic to let them know you're now bleeding clots? Maybe you could bring your blood test forward to tomorrow morning. You can 'carry on' all you like here hun. As we've all said, we're all here for you. Why does it have to be so heartbreakingly hard.
[QUOTE=Tahli;8531966]Ahh geez @Billie2 it certainly sounds like you're miscarrying doesn't it.
Yeah @Tahli thats exactly what it feels like. This is now #3 for me. But, Im not going to sit around and sook. I need to direct my anger into something positive. I'm going to get further tests for APS and whatever else I can research to see if there is something that we are missing. I clot every single af and my FS didn't listen to me.
I'm not going to put an emby back unless I have more tests. I owe it to them.
Gloves are off..
Good idea @Tahli I will have my BT tomorrow morning as I will be home so the crap news can be received in the comfort of home.
I have a new support staff and she has taken the day off with a headache. My god, Im sitting in my office having a miscarriage. Life only dishes up things we can handle so everyone on this thread must be bloody tough.
@Billie2 - so sorry to read these latest posts. Not what we were all hoping for. I agree I'd be leaving no stone unturned in testing before you transfer one of your frosties.
I remember in my initial consult my FS asked me did I have clots with AF. I didn't ask the reason for the question because I didn't, but evidently had the answer been yes, it would have meant something.
You're handling this really well and are obviously very resilient. Not many people could stay at work in the circumstances, but I know if it were me I would prefer to be at work distracted from my throughts somewhat.
@Billie2 I hope I didn't upset you yesterday, I was trying to be positive for you and I hope it just came across as that. I am sorry you have having such a sh*tty run at the moment. I think further testing is a great idea
Can you leave work a few hours early @Billie2? It sounds like your boss would be more than understanding. Does your DH know yet? Given his cautious attitude I feel for you on that front.
It definately sounds like your coming out fighting. Anger will do that all right!
What can the clotty periods be an indication of?
Molros not at all. I've taken every comment on as supportive and helpful. I honestly appreciate it.. You fall off your horse, you get back on, you get knocked down, you get back up. You get hit by a bus, dragged up the street, but you got to hospital, get better and do it again like a maniac.
oh far out @Billie2 Im so sorry to read this is happening to you!! Its so so so bloody unfair. Makes me really angry. Its so hard getting to the bfp and then it just doesnt stop there. I would speak to your boss, see if you can go home, Ive mc at work and would never do it again.
I know, we get back on that horse time and time again, its resilience and strength and we all have it in bucketloads. big big hugs xx
I'm proud of our little village too @Tahli
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