@Maxwellsmum hugs to you xo
Know how you feel @Maxwellsmum I thought DE was our easy way out. Like you we are not that lucky. My DH is totally disillusioned by the whole ivf process. No one helps you and or tells you all the things you need to be tested for. If I didn't do my own research is never know half the things I do. Honestly with all the things that have to line up I don't know how anyone gets pregnant naturally.
Afm booked to go for last transfer 14th August. This is it ladies! 3 embryo transfer gosh knowing my crappy luck all three will stick. Anyway really just hoping for anything to bloody stick.
Hmmm...Yes...the lining can start to break down for some bloody reason sometimes once progesterone has been started. I think this has happened to our @Tahli before??? (don't quote me on that one).
I'd be pi$$ed off too Luv r.e why you were allowed to transfer if the FS felt your lining wasn't up to par and your E2 was too low etc
Anyhoo...as it was at 8.5 and only went down to 7mm's I'd go again next month based on that in combination with the kitchen sink approach plus estrogen patches etc
I know a lot of the Girls on the NKC threads have done IVIG with Dr M. Maybe some on the SA donor threads too?? Wondering if @Chiefsgirl did it with him too??? Can't quite remember, but that's the next step up from intrallipids.
I used to be on the Warrier woman thread many moons ago. The thread seemed to have died off though. Still not a bad idea, it will probably just be me on there babbling away like a crazy woman. I don't blame others for been happy it just ****s me reading crap like that I personally don't need or want to know that every other person doing travelling donors is pregnant. For me at this point it does nothing for me. I know if they were in my shoes they would feel exactly the same way too. But I guess others want to know the stats it's just that they aren't always realistic as people like me seem to get swept under the carpet which makes me feel like writing some really nasty stuff when I see posts about how awesome travelling donors are blah blah blah and I don't want to be that person.
Anyway thanks for the roll call great work and for adding in the hamburger info.I sometimes forget wazzas terminology.
@Lastchance75 I'm sorry about your BFN, I read back a bit but not too far I saw more of your lining feedback stuff which is very frustrating for you to hear after you have already done transfer ect. I know it sucks hey. I am fully expecting to get BFN's when we get to transfer point. My hubby is that disillusioned he just says nope we won't even get to transfer he says that they have ****ed my lining up now and we will never, ever be parents. He says the universe is against us and we should just give up. He says he gave up last year.
My heart breaks for all of you Lovelies it really does when I read about your struggles I wish none of you had this extra BS to deal with on top of the IVF BS too!!
I'm and praying up a storm that you all make it to transfer!!!!!
"Do you hear me IVF Gods?? When I say ALL of the Lovelies, I mean EVERY SINGLE ONE OF THEM FFS'S!!!! Please and Thank-you!!!!"
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