@MrsTickle thank you for the extremely good sound sensible advice.
I did have a very expensive consult with a MTHFR naturopath and came away feeling they were prescribing me a ridiculous amount of supplements and trying to lock me in for further v expensive appointments. Which I have cancelled all after chatting to my doctor.
We sometimes don't think rationally when we are desperately seeking answers and are grieving. I did too much googling and made myself quite sick last week with exhaustion and overload on info that might not relate or be safe to me.
Dr recommended I chat again to my obstetrician and then if I want further info consult with a recommended reproductive immunologist... Someone as you also said who scientifically knows exactly what they are talking about and will treat me correctly.
I'm going to chat to my ob tomorrow.