gorgeousgeorge I have been watching your progress and so excited for you to head to Athens!! I just mentioned in another reply that we were always told it was egg quality for the first 7 cycles with Monash. But have since understood we were being overstimulated with the wrong protocols therefore affecting my eggs. I have PCOS so always have a good lot of eggs picked up but alot drop off between day 4-5 resulting in one to transfer and if we are lucky 1 to freeze. As soon as we moved to QFG we saw a huge improvement in egg quality! DH has sperm issues as well. So our issues are not huge but pretty important when your trying for a Bub! Charlotte did say that we were still getting good quality blasts to day 5 and said that if we were not getting any blasts or we were and they weren't good quality then she would recommend donor but didn't think we were ready for it. She mentioned that statistics for our age as well and said it was a numbers game and believed it would happen within 3-4 cycles. We were on an aggressive protocol with intralapids as well.
This is worked for us but may not work for everyone! It's has been a long 4 years of Ivf that's for sure.
I'll be cheering from the sidelines for you! This is your time!!