@jaydee32 im so glad you and bubba are doing well xox i hear ya on the wedding stuff mate. I eloped just me, dh and an elephant on the beach in thailand. The elephant was much easier to manage than human guests. Is it too late to just run away and elope to las vegas or something? Although i think its really cool you're having a shotgun wedding :-) i was hoping id be up the duff at mine but twas not to be.