We have a big family in a small house so things can look like a tip very quickly. But I don't consider it unclean as it gets cleaned up - then tip like again very quickly. BUT one suggestion I would like to make is that when I have lots on my mind (I'm very busy in my head and can't focus and feel frazzled a lot of the time)...I just keep moving, picking up, binning rubbish, taking laundry out of each room, wiping a surface once it's cleared etc. I wander from room to room getting distracted cos there is a lot to do but even in that unorganised, frazzled state if I keep moving it does make a huge difference to how the place looks. I wish I could help you out.