lol I really shouldn't BH after a glass of wine, 2 hours later this is already a non-issue and I'm embarrassed I posted. (Although maybe because it's just been 2 hours since DS went to bed and I've already forgotten what he smells like?)
But I appreciate your thoughts, and taking them into consideration I think the best option is to not say anything and just push through the crying and get him washed before bed. And give him a lazy dinner so I don't have to spend as much time on that!
We can't afford full time-childcare but I'm supposed to be putting in full time hours so I'm reluctant to sacrifice any toddler-free time as I use it to catch up on work.