Sending you hugs and kisses.
Sending you hugs and kisses.
Lots of great advice here.
@hopefull29 - if I were you, I'd remain excited.. How could you possibly not be excited? I'm thrilled for you and I'm not the one growing an actual bubba! Lol. I know they want you fully aware of all the risks, but you're not silly, you know the risks, but it doesn't meant you can't still remain excited for the moment!!
@ilex thanks Hun. I will definitely ask if I can swap over.
@Muchulu1 so glad to read you had some days with no symptoms. Making me feel better! Absolutely I'll do anything to bring this bubs into the world healthy.
Yes I want all the symptoms I can get so they reassure me. My nipples so far were only very slightly tender. So I guess it's not that unusual they're feeling ok now. I never get sore boobs in the lead up to AF. Heaviness in my uterus has also gone. However I did wake up at 3am and felt a little queasy. My lower back is aching like I'm getting AF so hopefully it's a pregnancy ache which I know quite a few people do get.
Also feeling a little queasy this morning. I've run out of poas's so no doubt I'll go buy another 7 pack. Didn't really want to but think I'm going to have to to keep sane lol.
@katham - my DH is amazing.. I'm very lucky he's an amazing support for me. I'm just not sure what to do from here on in.. Going to see FS in a week to chat to her.. Hoping she listens.. She has a very simple protocol.. When I compared with protocol from Wazza (on the over 40s board), I noticed his was so detailed.. She literally does one scan, 3 bloods and you're done.. Not sure if that's a good thing or a bad thing..
@ pingc383 its hard to trust your FS sometimes and I think for me its because so much is unknown, like are they doing a certain protocol because its what they do or is it to suit your situation. All you can do is keep asking questions.
So last night I was telling my best friend my exciting news and mid sentence his wife blurts in that she is pregnant with their 4th baby! Unplanned! A part of me shut down instantly to protect myself😢 While I am happy for them, I felt she was insensitive in how she told me and I just felt a little sick. I could tell my BF was shocked too because I'm sure he was waiting for a good moment to tell me. I felt like my news was over shadowed by hers and less important. Im also hurt as I was very supportive of her when she MC 2 yrs ago and her feelings, and i guess I expected some consideration of my feelings back.
Then later i heard her whispering to her BF that I had an embryo implanted...when it was none of her friends business and not her news to share. Some of my friends don't know what im doing but she's shared my news and in front of me! I was already feeling sensitive and this just added to my hurt feelings 😯 Feeling blah now 😧😕
This time round no one in the family knows except for my mum and I wont be seeing any family during the cycle either. Just keeping to myself.
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