I got your PM about your clinic and they were the first clinic I was with and I hated them! I too felt exactly the same way as you do and that they refused to do 5 day transfers.
I headed to our new clinic IVFA and they have been fantastic. They do 5 day transfers, high magnification of DH sperm, and if I hadn't gone there I probably wouldn't know I have an egg issue and am now going down the donor path.
when I was at your current clinic I felt that they didn't listen and they just poo pooed everything I said.