If you take a sibling to a party, do you expect a party bag for them? Or include them if you are making outfits?
I'm struggling a bit as while I never expect my non-invited kid to get a bag etc, but I have always given them out if I know a sibling is coming! But I'm ordering things in this year and won't have enough time for them to arrive between RSVP date and the party if I wait to see what numbers are, and can't afford to order extra "just incase". Plus, I always seem to get 1-2 parents who bring siblings and don't tell me so then I feel really bad as everyone else gets something, but those kids miss out!!!
So this year, I'm considering not doing it as DS wants a Jedi party. Thinking of making tunics for the kids, but don't really want to make 20 to accommodate the siblings. So they wouldn't get one, but I might do a little bag with a toy and freddo for them.
Do you think that's fair? I don't know why I'm struggling with the concept of invited guests only so much! Am I weird? Or do you include them too?