My DS is 20 months old. Most of the time, he only wants me, not DP. It's only me that can settle him during the night if needed - he just keeps crying and escalates if DP tries. (We're finished BFing). He comes to me for comfort when he's sad. He always wants me to pick him up, or will pull my hand to come with him places, rarely DP. He wants me to sit with him for his meals, not DP. I love him, but it's exhausting! DP gets a lot more 'down time' than me, and i feel like i am always 'on duty' when bub is awake.
How can we encourage him to go to us both equally?