So after my appointment on Thurs with the Fertility Specialist I feel better he used proper terms, but basically he thinks I am fine because my tubes are still bendy and don't cause pain, if they were damaged they would be more stiff. He is still sending me for a tube flush as that's the only way to be 100% sure.
But I feel more confident now, more relaxed. Also DH learnt something which surprised me, he told me last night about how his sperm is different from if he does it a lot in 1 day, to if he saves up for a couple of days.
So now he wants to hold off having sex for at a min of 2 days, and be more aware of how I am tracking ovulation, at first he didn't want to know... It's really nice that now he is more interested and I feel like he is truly on board with trying to make a baby. Not that he wasn't before, but now he realises it's not as easy as just having sex for him, he needs to try too!
[QUOTE=It's really nice that now he is more interested and I feel like he is truly on board with trying to make a baby. Not that he wasn't before, but now he realises it's not as easy as just having sex for him, he needs to try too![/QUOTE]
I'm glad you feel reassured from your doctor. Even though I've only just begun this journey, I completely know what you mean about DH showing interest. Mine did some research the other day about dtd etc, so it's not just me referring to facts, he now is too
So, today is day 4 of flashy smiley on the OPK (how many days should it flash for?), so maybe just maybe we might still be in with a chance. DTD last night and if we don't do it tonight, we will tomorrow night... not out yet, like I thought we might be!
I think AF is meant to be due tomoz so I will be testing first thing in the morning! I tested all week until Thursday with nothing. Then yest arvo dh told me to use our last test and there was an absolute squinter of a line, to the point where I don't know if it was just my eyes from looking at so many tests!! So bought a new lot today and will resist until the morning!! Fingers crossed!
Omg I have soooooo many pimples!!!!
I'm an absolute mess today, crying over everything, went to get myself something for my birthday tomorrow. Ended up spending $250 on hubby and kids, (I got nothing) then went for lunch, they all for what they wanted, hubby suggested this Chinese place for he and I, he liked it and I almost threw up so the whole lot went in the bin after one mouthful, I cried and went hungry, I now have a killer headache for crying all day, everyone got something except me.. And it's my damn birthday. Oh and I paid $200 on dinner last night for my other son and his pregnant girlfriend. Is it wrong of me to just want to have one thing for myself for my birthday. Even if it's just one edible meal?? Am I selfish, or am I being a sooky baby?
Rant over. Back to crying, AF due tomorrow that's probably why
So today marks me officially 1 week late for AF and still no signs of it at all!
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