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I agree with the others, please explain your understanding of women's rights
Last edited by ThreePeasPlease; 11-06-2016 at 10:33.
They were in little german outfits, with a few too many drinks in them having fun. There is no red flag here. And these are the type of comments that enable sh*tty male behaviour. How about the guys not act like w@nkers?? There would be an idea!
OP you did nothing wrong. Your DP needs to get over it. It's not like you were falling all over these guys. The only fault lays with the guys in this scenario (might I say I really don't think what they did was shocking either).
So you're attacking me because I agree with your partner in this debate. You asked for opinions and I agree with your partner. If you're acting provocatively in a public place it's possible that it will attract the attention of others even if that's not your intention. The men in this case were just excited as that sort of behaviour by two tipsy girls in previous experience HAS continued to be a performance.
Just because we're female doesn't give us the right to do what we want when we want.
We need to take responsibility for what we do and how that impacts others.
So my responsibility and how it impacts others based on this post topic: I knew you would be put back because of my comments as I'm not agreeing with you, I'm agreeing with your partner ( who you've already expressed you disagree with).
society is so PC now it's telling women they can dress in a mini skirt and walk down dark alleys or go into the male bathrooms with a whole football team with confidence. Society and the media are to scared of being called victim blamers ( like I have been) but come on you don't go into a male toilet in a nightclub with a whole football team to have a cup of tea. If you don't put yourself in those situations then the impression and opportunity can't arise.
Verbal language is only a small way in which humans communicate ( studies have suggested less than 10%)
You make it sound like men have no control over their actions. That they're less evolved than us and we have to tread carefully. Bullsh!t. How insulting to the majority of men out there that respect others.
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