DH and I both need to attend a conference for work in a few months time, DS will be 2.25 years old.
I'm thinking we just go for one night and leave DS to have his first overnight stay with our very lovely ILs. (Normally I would use DS as an excuse to get out of these kind of events but this is one that DH and I both need to be at for future job prospects!)
So my questions: Would it be better for MIL to come and stay at our house, or for DS to go over there?
I'm not sure if DS will be more comfortable in his own home, or be more confused about the fact that we aren't there. He's never slept the night at MIL's but often spends the day there without us and seems perfectly happy doing that.
Any other suggestions or advice?
We cosleep, but will hopefully have weaned by then (slowly working on that!).
The conference is a two hour train ride away.
We'd drop him at daycare on the morning of day 1 and be back to pick him up from daycare on day 2.