Love the cat @winsor. I like your idea for a name change. Pudding is not a fit name for as dignified a creature as a cat.
My cat acts like a dog too. Phantom is 10kgs and my vet said that big cats are often more like dogs. He follows you around, wants to eat what you eat and even sits of the verandah and waits for you to come home. I love dogs and cats but our yard is too small for a dog.
Infertility seems to be so common now. I have several friends who are struggling to conceive. 2 have 1 child and have all but given up on having a second. They are both younger than me. Another friend has been TTC her first for 5 years. She just turned 40. Bloody heartbreaking stuff.
@40NotOut is there an alternative that you can take if you decide to do further cycles? I remember MCGBertie saying menopur was made from the urine of nuns. I would be happier with that than killing hamsters! This world is damn cruel IMO!