Thanks @Tahli, I haven't told him yet, I'll do another test in the morning and tell him then.
Just quite numb atm, I knew it was going to be a bfn, just feel like this is not my life, someone made a mistake. I guess we all feel like that.
@calypso75 it's hard when so many of the girls are fans of his. On my first phone consult I found him lovely to chat too. I didn't find out anything more from his blood tests than I did from LBs. No magic reason why it's not happening. I did my best to take his meds. When the Metformin made me sick they blamed it on a virus instead. The 2nd time it happened they suggested a different way to take it. I guess I was also abit pieved at having to pay for every chat too. By that stage I was so tired and just wanted them to care, but he's getting busier by the day so I'm not sure he has a vested interest in his bazillions of patients. Also I got differing advice on two different calls. It was worth a try, no stone unturned, but I won't be going back.
*No offence intended to the girls who have had success with him after years of infertility.
Last edited by Tahli; 23-06-2016 at 16:15.
@Lastchance75 do you have a clinic where you can have a test Saturday morning and get the results on the same day to check for doubling times? It'd do my head in waiting until Tuesday, esp after your nurse was such a bundle of positivity.
@MissDa yeah i get it. Sometimes I think Im still in denial that Im one of those people who cannot have kids. Its like thats what happens to other people. I feel like there are a few of the "big" things in life that all my other friends seem to have with somewhat ease, like all the "normal" people out there and then theres me and dh. Its never that simple but it can feel like that i think. You're not alone, I hope dp is supportive. thinking of you xxx
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Last edited by BlondeinBrisvegas; 23-06-2016 at 20:43.
@calypso75 I hope your FS has some answers, Im glad you guys are going to try again. Sometimes you just need a break for a while and then you can pick yourself up and get back on the horse again. Its bloody exhausting and getting more opinions is tiring too and these Drs are so damn busy that its hard to not feel like a number with some of them.
Yes things are moving along for us and Im sure in no time at all we'll be riding the rollercoaster once again!
@Tahli I hope you're dads stuff gets sorted soon, it sounds stressful.
Ah fruck it Luv!!! Am so very sorry to hear that
I think it is a smart move to embryo bank and get as many frosties as you can to test. If they aren't suitable for testing, I'm assuming you'll transfer them???
I also think it's a good idea having the Lap done as well as having a biopsy done for NKC while he's down there Might as well!!! I don't know much about Glen Sterling but what I have heard/read has been good
ETA- Shall pop you in for July tentatively on the Roll Call for now
Last edited by BlondeinBrisvegas; 23-06-2016 at 17:21.
@Lastchance75 fwiw I think those levels are fine, especially your Progesterone. hcg would be 100+ by day 16/17 when they usually test. I'm sorry your nurse wasn't more positive - she must have been having a bad day & unfairly taken it out on you
hugs @MissDa. it's never easy is it. I understand what you mean too.
Now lets just back up the bloody truck for a minute Luv ok???
That negative hit nurse needs to shut the fruck up for a start!!!
As @tuxcat pointed out...that level is within the normal range for 14 dpo. Have you allowed for the time difference???
Was your transfer a fresh/frozen?? Your level will also depend on when your emby implanted. There are so many factors that can account for why your level was what is was when you had your bloods done this morning.
What matters more is the doubling time. So, as the Girls have pointed out. You can go and get your bloods done again on Sat or again on Monday is my advice if you want to see how your levels are rising. The only question is how long you are prepared to wait.
Your P4 levels are excellent!! At 16dpo mine were 591 so yours are going to surpass that by the time you get there!!! Your emby is going nowhere Luv and is sticking to you like glue with that level so that's one thing you don't have to worry about.
This isn't over for you Luv...not by a long chalk!!!
Last edited by BlondeinBrisvegas; 24-06-2016 at 06:53.
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