@MissDa it does seem pretty bad that you're only getting one embryo from the donor. If it doesn't work out this time then maybe just see what your FS has to say, I don't know what clinic you go through but I know with Genea they do have a world egg bank program where you are guaranteed 6 eggs and my FS had had 100% success rates with her 6 patients that had used them. Its not cheap, $20k I think but given that a normal donor cycle through them isn't too far off that its probably a pretty close option. And you still have the donor's information attached to the eggs. It is a lot of money I know, and I guess if you aren't necessarily wanting a known donor then SA is probably cheaper, but then its the going back and forth I guess which can add up to being a lot more if you had to that is.
Why does all this have to be so hard! I so hope this one works and you don't even have to bother thinking about any other options!!
great news about a date for Miss A @Chiefsgirl it must be some relief knowing you can get it all sorted.
have a cocktail for me @Charlie74 !!