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    Quote Originally Posted by Mod-biscotti View Post
    Just clearing this up.....the member only has one account and it has not been merged with any previous accounts, nor has the member changed user names. The member's first post was posted in 2014.

    I wouldn't normally post that info in the forum but I think it's important to clarify.
    Cheers all,
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    Thank you for sorting that problem Biscotti.

    There was a lot of suspicion about that.

    Thanks.

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    https://debuk.wordpress.com/2015/05/16/call-me-woman/

    Bit of an aside, but the link above may shed some light on why some people have a problem with 'Lady' ...

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    Quote Originally Posted by PinkTutu View Post
    Curious, you mention going through 5 miscarriages with previous partners, did you feel this way during the IVF process with them? (I assume these were IVF babies also, as you mentioned previously that it's you with a medical problem and talk openly about your feelings of guilt).
    They were all natural conceptions.

    I didn't have this problem until recently.

    I am low end of the normal scale for pretty much all semen factors. But my count fluctuates between 5 and 22 million per ml.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tiny Danza View Post
    https://debuk.wordpress.com/2015/05/16/call-me-woman/

    Bit of an aside, but the link above may shed some light on why some people have a problem with 'Lady' ...
    To call her "my woman" to me seems derogatory. That's why I chose "my Lady" as the term. I didn't really know what else to use.

    Normally I would just use her name.

    But I understand the article you have linked. The different attachments of social standing or class have differed over the years.

    Frankly with all the PC crap going around it's a wonder that anyone can be called anything but their own name without some form of repercussion.

    Thanks for the article.

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    Quote Originally Posted by TCK View Post

    I am low end of the normal scale for pretty much all semen factors. But my count fluctuates between 5 and 22 million per ml.
    Did you feel any discomfort when female medical staff were involved with analyzing your semen? Or were the staff involved all male?

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    Default Irrational problem. Looking for anything to hold on to.

    Quote Originally Posted by VicPark View Post
    Did you feel any discomfort when female medical staff were involved with analyzing your semen? Or were the staff involved all male?
    A very relevant question.

    The clinic we are using has an all female staff. Even the scientists are all female. We are both very comfortable with this

    I am quite comfortable having a woman doing all those things. In fact I prefer it.

    I have no issue with a male GP, but if I ever have to see a urologist or similar it will only ever be a female unless there is some emergency.

    I posed this same question to my partner just the other day. What would she think if the role was reversed?

    I got that answer that she didn't care. As long as whatever needed to be done got done.

    It sounds very hypocritical of me I know. I think my saving grace here is that my DP doesn't mind.

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    Is there any history in your past which could explain why physical closeness/intimacy with males creeps you out?

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    Default Irrational problem. Looking for anything to hold on to.

    Quote Originally Posted by VicPark View Post
    Is there any history in your past which could explain why physical closeness/intimacy with males creeps you out?
    Not really.

    When I was maybe 7 I had abdominal pains. GP was palpating my abdominal region and kept pushing my undies further and further down until I was briefly exposed. Nothing else happened though. He quickly put them back up we if he 'accidentally' went down too far. Whilst I question that supposed necessity or possible error, it doesn't affect me. I had a rectal exam at the same time which wasn't pleasant.my mother was there but behind the curtain. Again, unpleasant but as far as I can see it hasn't caused me any issues. I don't like the memory though. It's a fairly clear memory.

    I have several male and female gay friends and I completely support people's right to be who they are.

    I am 33 years old and I still greet my 74 year old father with a kiss on the cheek and a big bear hug. I greet one married male friend with a bear hug as well when I see him.

    Thank you for trying to help. I appreciate it. It's why I'm here.

    It's so confusing and scary because I've never had these reactions before the last few months.

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    Quote Originally Posted by TCK View Post
    I have been having the same feelings you describe as your DH.

    Failure. Not masculine.
    I'll ask you what I asked my husband. If the issue lay with her, would you see her as a failure, unfeminine?

    I think that your inner feelings of guilt and failure are bringing these problems out.

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    Default Irrational problem. Looking for anything to hold on to.

    Quote Originally Posted by delirium View Post
    I'll ask you what I asked my husband. If the issue lay with her, would you see her as a failure, unfeminine?

    I think that your inner feelings of guilt and failure are bringing these problems out.
    My answer to that would be no. Not in the slightest.

    But I also doubt my belief in that would do much, if anything for her own feelings of self worth.

    DP has actually posed the same question and told me as such. I understand the mechanism. But it doesn't help.


 
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